Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: A Response to Evangelical Feminism by John Piper & Wayne Grudem (2012) I found this to be the most beneficial book overall.

Men and Women in the Church by Kevin DeYoung (2021)

T: The Story of Testosterone, the Hormone that Dominates and Divides Us by Carole Hooven (Cassell, 2021) — She approaches the subject not as a Christian, but from the scientific position that men and women are biologically so distinct that the term “intersex” is objectively meritless.

Not Just Good, but Beautiful: The Complementary Relationship between Man and Woman by Steven Lopes and Helen Alvaré (eds.) (Plough Publishing House, 2015)

On the Meaning of Sex by J. Budziszewski (Intercollegiate Studies Institute, 2014)

Manliness by Harvey C. Mansfield (Yale University Press, 2007)